Moving From a “Problem-solving” to an “Asset-connecting” Mindset: Youth

I’ve noticed that when neighborhoods start gathering, they seem to start with a “problem-solving” mentality. Fact is, a lot of Americans need problems to draw us out of our well-guarded private lives. We meet in order to “vent” about problems, and our next step–if there are any action steps taken–is to seek a government or sometimes a nonprofit organization to listen to our problems so that they can solve them. As John McKnight likes to say, “We outsource our problems.”

Alternatively, if neighbors are lucky, their little association or block club will organize further, attempting to create some action steps which they hope a governmental or other organizational body will adopt as the solution to their problems. They present said solutions, then step back and wait for implementation. Sometimes they use phone or email pressures to lobby for movement, and sometimes the action plan becomes a casualty of busy private lives. In Minnesota, the Great Killer of Momentum is often our long winter.

Fact is, most neighborhood problems can’t be solved by block clubs, the police department, or community councils. The bad landlord or neighbor down the street might finally get shaped up or shipped out, but come spring, another one will often take her place.

This cycle is exhausting, and I’ve seen many a neighbor completely burned out by their efforts to “put out fires.” That’s why I’ve chosen to leave the problem-solving mentality entirely. It’s not that I don’t want to see problems solved; on the contrary, I want to change what I see. Instead of seeing problems, I see assets.

An example: Instead of spending my energy gathering neighbors to lobby city officials about bad behaviors and problem properties, I look for ways to mobilize and connect neighborhood assets–good behaviors and treasured places. The hope is that in focusing on increasing community connection, we’ll all feel a lot prouder of what we have; moreover, that pride and involvement will translate into neighborhood safety and economic growth.

Here are a few examples of connections neighborhoods have fostered across the country that have produced positive results (with thanks to John McKnight and Jody Kretzmann for their Building Communities from the Inside Out):

Youth + Rec Center + Community Council = At our very own Dayton’s Bluff Recreation Center, youths who want to leave gang culture learn how to rap about their feelings and hopes through a local artist-in-residence. With help from the community council and others, the youths build their own recording studio and have it staffed with a studio “trainer,” who teaches kids how to use the production equipment.

Youth + Community Center = At a youth community center in Detroit, employees do research on community organizations and institutions. Youths interview leaders or administrators at churches, schools, hospitals, businesses, healthcare centers, and other organizations. At the end of the summer, the youth post a community forum to inform people about the resources in their community.

Youth + Community Organizations + Churches  = Nashville community organizations form a coalition to build a cement basketball court for a church, rehab housing, paint murals, design puppets for a parade, and develop a “toxic tour” of the city’s hazardous areas to educate residents about health issues.

Youth + YMCA = Youth are selected by YMCA staff and resident managers of housing developments to participate in a six-month fitness and leadership program. At the end of the training, the youth will be certified Y fitness leaders. They will structure and operate after school and Saturday night programs for other youths in the neighborhood.

Youth + Community Development Corporation + Police + Parks & Rec = The Northwest Side Community Development Corporation in Milwaukee, Wisconsin organizes a small group of youths to renovate a small park. A police officer helps the youth find funding and assists with writing of the proposal. The youths plan to approach businesses in the area for more funding. The major piece of their work will be the renovation of an abandoned community center at the park in order to make it available for public use.

Youth + Parks & Rec + Churches = At Youth in Action of New York City, youths gain ownership of an empty lot and transform it into children’s park. They paint a huge mural on the wall of the church facing the park and renovate the basement of the church to create a youth center.

Schools + Historians + City Council = In Prairie Village, Kansas, fifth and sixth graders participate in an innovative educational program that takes them on tours around their neighborhoods to learn about buildings in the process of community planning. Then the students create their own walking tour and slide presentation about the community. When officials of their town proposed razing an old barn to make a parking lot, 90 students went to City Hall with information about the barn’s historical significance to the community.

Youth + Local Businesses = Through the Youths as Resources Project in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, youths contribute to the economic development of their communities by rehabilitating housing. They’re paid and earn school credit. An industrial council made up of local businesses provides raw materials and offers talks, tours, and job training for the youths. Many of them eventually start their own businesses or are employed by one of the local businesses.

Youth + Senior Center = In Chicago, when latchkey kids are feeling lonely, experiencing a crisis, or just want to chat, they can talk to community elders on the telephone through the “Grandma Please” program.

Youth + Senior Center + State Government = Several elders from Lincoln Park Senior Center in Chicago are paired with foster children at a neighborhood day care center. This partnership is facilitated by the Illinois Department of Aging.

Need nametags for your neighbors?

Neighborhood White Pages. Fascinating stuff. Type in your address and see your neighbors’ names. While it’s a little weak on renters–and it seems to provide quite formal versions of your neighbors’ names–it’s pretty up-to-date, and I can see this being helpful for when you just don’t remember that neighbor’s name and you’d like to say hi.

Hey, Frogtown! Congratulations, but you’re not the only ones!

UPDATE: When I look today at this post of two days ago, I’m struck by its passive-aggressive tone. I must have been feeling pretty frustrated! Sorry, Tait, and The Line…

When I think about it today, my biggest question has become: How do I learn to focus and avoid burnout? Future blog there, I’m sure…

In Frogtown, a GIS map helps make a neighborhood group more efficient. –From The Line, a local e-zine

I must admit, when I read the last line from Tait Danielson-Castillo, I got a little miffed: “We’re 90 percent sure that nobody else has used [the technology] this way,” he says. “No one else we know is using this on the community level.”

I was using Google Maps in Frogtown back in the summer of 2009 to track various agencies, gifts, prayer needs, etc. when St. Paul Fellowship Church was exploring the formation of a Community Development Corporation.

Further, LINC-Twin Cities has a fantastic community map of Frogtown that tracks gifts, associations, and agencies with C-Camp mapping software from the Communities First Association.

…Not to mention our little effort brewing over here on the Bluff!

I think it’s fantastic what Frogtown Neigborhood Association is doing. And I hope that Tait will be able to share how he mobilized his staff and volunteers to make this effort work. But I’m disheartened that his comments shows just how DISconnected we connectors really are.

ABCD Seminar – LINC – Twin Cities

The event I’ve wanted in my hometown for awhile… Jody Kretzmann in St. Paul.

I first got to know Kretzmann and compatriot John McKnight through a series of web-based instructional videos from the ABCD Institute. Then my friend Bri and I were sent by my church, Imago Dei, to the ABCD Institute’s weekend intensive conference in Chicago. It was life-changing. If you have $15, cancel your plans and go. If you don’t have $15, ask me for money so you can go.

ABCD Seminar – LINC – Twin Cities.

Needs versus Assets

Welcome to my little blog. As I prepare to engage my neighbors to think about one another’s giftedness, it occurs to me that I must communicate why. I often entertain questions like:

  • Asking people about their gifts doesn’t solve the problems of our neighborhood, does it?
  • Is it really worth the time to interview people about their gifts? Can’t we just start doing something?
  • How does this help with our crime problem? Our vacant housing? Our home values plummeting?

John Soleil over at The Abundant Community says that

Our greatest leadership challenge today is confronting the reality that our communities have fallen apart and social connections exist mostly online.  We do not know our neighbors.  We eat fast food alone in our cars next to other people eating alone in their cars.  We pay people to care for our children.  We pay people to care for our elders.  We pay people to cook our meals and mow our lawns.  We pay people to educate our children until they are old enough for us to send them away where we pay other people for “higher education,” removing our students and their talents completely from our community.

Our communities are now collections of individuals structuring their lives in every way possible to avoid contact with other people.

I would argue that what Dayton’s Bluff needs most is connection. And the only way to build connection is also the hard way: To talk to our neighbors.

In our consumer culture, we’ve been taught to see problems first, rather than opportunities; we’re “solvers of problems.” That’s not always a bad thing: I’m glad someone viewed cancer as a problem that needed solving. However, we often apply that same mentality to our neighbors…to people. Here’s a visual:

NEEDS

ASSETS

Action requires highlighting needs and deficiencies Action requires engagement of the marginalized, drawing them back into the community where they can offer their gifts
Builds a perception that only outside agencies and experts can help Builds a perception that we’re all capable of supporting one another and knowing what our community needs
Is about survival, at its best Is about people’s dreams, passions, and gifts
People = Clients and Consumers People = Neighbors and Producers

So where are you? Are you being seen for your assets or your deficiencies? What about your neighbor? Consider the opportunities we waste when we only see deficiencies. While this approach might not directly solve our neighborhood’s problems, it just might help create a community that will generate solutions as a byproduct of joyful, life-giving endeavors that make us glad we live here.

Next time: More on the personal side of “gifts based” thinking.